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Sunday, September 26, 2010

35 weeks today...

Man, only 5 weeks to go since I'm 35 weeks today.  CRAZY!

Here's what babycenter.com says has been happening:

Your baby doesn't have much room to maneuver now that he's over 18 inches long and tips the scales at 5 1/4 pounds (pick up a honeydew melon). Because it's so snug in your womb, he isn't likely to be doing somersaults anymore, but the number of times he kicks should remain about the same. His kidneys are fully developed now, and his liver can process some waste products. Most of his basic physical development is now complete — he'll spend the next few weeks putting on weight.

And whattoexpect.com had this to say about what's going on:
 
Your baby is standing tall (so to speak) this week at about 20 inches and continues his steady weight gain (he’s about 5.5 pounds). While he won't get much longer, he will continue to pack on the pounds — including large amounts of baby fat — right up 'til delivery day. Something else that's moving at a mind-boggling pace these day: fetal brain development! There’s a lot going on inside that tiny head, which is, by the way, still soft to allow an easier exit through the birth canal.
 

Friday, September 24, 2010

baby care class...

We had our last class, Baby Care, last night at the hospital.  It went from 7:30-8:45pm and Jackie crammed just as much information as she could into it.  :)  The gave us a booklet that I thought was pretty organized and contained lots of good information for us to reference back to.

We talked about procedures in the hospital directly after the baby is born -- like always moving the baby in the bassinet (not carrying them down the hall in your arms).  Jackie mentioned that we didn't need to bring our car seat into the hospital but that we did need to take our car to a local fire department so they could ensure that we've installed the car seat properly into the car.  She also mentioned the 2 routine medicines that almost all newborns get -- the PKU (a blood test done to test for rare metabolic disorders) and the Hepatitis B vaccine.  The hospital also does a hearing screen on all newborns.

We talked a tiny bit about breastfeeding but most in the class, like us, had already taken or were planning to take the breastfeeding class so we didn't dwell on that too much.

We talked about using the suction bulb (aka aspirator) which the hospital will give us to take home.  I've heard from friends (and also from Jackie last night) that the one they give you in the hospital is the BEST -- that they work 100 times better than any you can buy in the store.  Got it.

We talked about diaper changing and even how to clean off little bums before putting on a new diaper.  Very informative.  Jackie passed around photos of normal (and not-so-normal) poops based on whether the baby is breastfed or formula fed.  Nice.

We talked about circumcision care for those of us (over half the class, I'd say) who are having boys -- we covered that pretty extensively in the prepared childbirth class, too, but it was nice to hear Jackie reiterate.  Along those same lines, we talked about umbilical cord care (until the stump falls off).

We talked about how to bathe our babies, and Jackie brought up a really good point in describing how SHE personally used to bathe her babies right after they were born.  I didn't think about this but Jackie described how she would wash "sections" of her baby (head, then face, arms, then chest, etc.) and dry them off before she moved on to the next section.  She said she did that so they would stay as warm as possible while still being completely naked.  Huh.  Just not something I really thought about but I've seen babies just shiver while being bathed and I guess that's a good way to keep them from getting too cold.

We talked briefly about skin care -- using detergents like Dreft or ALL free & clear to wash all the baby's clothes and/or blankets, etc.  Jackie said she actually switched to using ALL for all of their clothes, too, because if you think about it, as you hold your baby, he's up against YOUR clothes, too.  Good point.

We talked a little bit about jaundice -- what that looks like and how to treat.  She said it's normal for all babies to have a little bit but that unusually high levels of bilirubin would require some extra watch and care until the levels drop to normal.

We talked about how to take your baby's temperature and what a "high" temperature for them is (100.4 +).  We discussed different types of thermometers and rectal thermometers were discouraged.  The general consensus was to use a regular thermometer under the armpit of your baby to get the most accurate reading.

A lot of information, right?  It was a great class and, once again, I'm glad we took it.  We had about 28 folks in the class, our largest class by far, and I was pleased to see that ALL the dads were there with their spouses.  Way to represent, dads!  :)

Thursday, September 23, 2010

doctor's appt #16...

I had a doctor's appt this afternoon with my OB.  They did another NST (nonstress test) to make sure the baby is still hanging in there.  He is.  :)

I met Dr. Woodfill today who I've heard fantastic things about.  I really liked him a lot.  He has a compassionate spirit and he took the time to talk to me about the NST.  He showed me the printout and explained what they look for.  He said over a 20 min (or so) time period, they look to see what the baby's heartbeat baseline is (Deacon's is in the 140s, on average) and then they look for at least 2 increases in heartrate due to movement and/or minor contractions.  He said they saw 3 in my printout so things look fine.  He said they're fine to go with that for about a week -- hence the reason they do that every week.

Aside from that, he checked for swelling (which is pretty much constant at this point, from the time I get up til the time I go to bed -- and I'm betting the swelling really doesn't even go away while I sleep), and said that it was perfectly normal for this point in the pregnancy.  I told him about my struggle with taking time to get off my feet/put them up because I work and then I go home to start my "other job" of being a wife to my husband and "keeping house".  He even understood that -- the many hats we as women wear.  We just had a really good conversation.

Next week, I'll have 2 doc appts.  *sigh*  Such is life at this point, I guess.

Tuesday, September 21, 2010

maternity photos, 33 weeks

You may remember that I mentioned a rather large shower being thrown for us this past weekend.  It was absolutely amazing -- I'm waiting to post about it, though, until I get some photos to post with it.

Until then, I thought I'd share some of the fabulous photos that my friend, Elizabeth, took for us when we were in Cary a couple weeks ago.  I am so.pleased. with how they turned out.  We went to a park there close to where they live and it was just perfect for our photos.  The weather was awesome and Elizabeth was so easy to work with, had lots of good ideas.  These photos are so precious to me, to preserve the memories of this, my first pregnancy...












Sunday, September 19, 2010

34 weeks today...

I'm 34 weeks today.  6 more weeks to go...and lots of stuff to do!

Babycenter.com says this about what's been going on with our little one:

Your baby now weighs about 4 3/4 pounds (like your average cantaloupe) and is almost 18 inches long. His fat layers — which will help regulate his body temperature once he's born — are filling him out, making him rounder. His skin is also smoother than ever. His central nervous system is maturing and his lungs are continuing to mature as well. If you've been nervous about preterm labor, you'll be happy to know that babies born between 34 and 37 weeks who have no other health problems generally do fine. They may need a short stay in the neonatal nursery and may have a few short-term health issues, but in the long run, they usually do as well as full-term babies.

And whattoexpect.com said this:
 
Your baby is clocking in at five pounds and could be as tall as 20 inches by now, and the vernix (the white coating protecting your baby’s skin) is getting thicker. This week, a boy's testicles start making their way down from his abdomen to their final destination: his scrotum (look out below!). While about three to four percent of boys are born with undescended testicles, it's nothing to worry about — they usually head downtown before junior turns a year old. In other baby-related developments, those tiny fingernails have probably reached the tips of his fingers by now — and getting ready for that first postpartum manicure.
 


Saturday, September 18, 2010

BIG shower!

We are so overwhelmed at the outpouring of love we saw tonight at our BIG baby shower thrown by our Sunday School class -- the amount of folks that came, the amount of food that was prepared, the thought and time that so obviously went into the decorations, setup, games, etc.

We.were.floored.  To say the least.

And it was a blast!  We laughed a lot, ate a lot, cried some.  :)  It was such a blessing to us...the photos (taken by one very talented Summer Saunders) should pretty much speak for themselves:

Our sweet friend, Catherine, took 8x10 copies of some of our maternity photos and did scrapbook pages of them to set on all the tables...and those are coffee beans.  :)  Nice touch!


[the multitude of gifts]

[the absolutely gorgeous cake that our friend, Stephen, MADE...]

[34 weeks pregnant]

[*gasp* a chocolate fountain!]

This is normally the room that our Sunday School class meets in, now filled with things of the party persuasion.  It was a great venue to throw a shower in.  And hold everyone.  :)



The onesie and hat say "I was worth the wait."  :)


I had to throw in a photo of my ridiculously cute niece, Cora Beth.  Had to.  :)




[so, so very glad that my family could be there for this special night]

So many folks were involved in the planning of this shower and so much time and thought and love went into making it a success -- those girls on the "planning committee" thought of everything!  We could not have asked for anything more special than what was presented tonight.

Thank you, thank you, THANK YOU to all of those who spent any amount of time on any aspect of this shower -- you blessed our hearts so much!

Thank you to Summer Saunders who left us with these and so many more photos of these precious memories for us.

Thank you to all of those who were able to attend -- we had a wonderful time with you all!  Your love and generosity are so overwhelming to us and we're so grateful for each of you!

And thank you to our Lord Jesus who has brought each and every loved one into our lives so that we could experience the kind of love that we did tonight.  Our hearts and our lives are so full!

Friday, September 17, 2010

doctor's appts #14 & #15...

I had another 2 doctor's appts today, one at my OB and one at Wilmington Maternal.  Kinda getting frustrated and worn out with all these double appts, but it is what it is.  So whatev.

My first appt was this morning at Wilmington Maternal Fetal Medicine downtown for an ultrasound to check everything.  Jeff didn't get to go with me this time, but my momma did.  And she was so excited!  Momma & Daddy are in town for our baby shower tomorrow evening so Momma was able to go with me to this appt.  She loved every minute of it -- she thought it was so neat to see the ultrasound (they didn't have those back when she had her 2 babies) and tried very diligently to figure out what she was looking at.  The baby has really grown, though, so everything just looks like a mess in there now.  But my u/s tech, George, was good about pointing out what we were seeing.  

Once again, everything looks great with the growth.  George told us the baby weighs just over 5 lbs now which is in the 42nd percentile, just above average.  He said the development is right on target with my due date.  He did mention, though, that the baby is breech right now, with his butt down toward my cervix and his body curled up around on my right side (so his head is sitting under my left boob -- sorry, guys).

Dr. Radick (Dr. Wright's new partner) came in and told us everything looked great but that the kidneys were still larger than normal so they would continue to keep an eye on that and start checking my fluid levels a little more closely to be sure everything progressed the way it should.

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My next appt was this afternoon at my OB's office and they did an NST, or nonstress test.  That was really pretty cool.  They strapped 2 external fetal monitors to my belly and had me sit in this really comfy recliner.  It coulda been a La-Z-Boy.  I'm just sayin'.

The one monitor was sitting right where the heart primarily was so they could monitor the heartbeat, and every time I felt any movement I was supposed to push the button on this handheld thing she gave me (like buzzing in on Jeopardy :).  I was amazed at how much I could hear him moving around and not actually feel the movement itself (to be able to push the button).  He really moves around a lot and I can't even feel it all, only the major moves, kicks or rolls that he does.  

So this whole time I'm strapped up -- about 35-40 min, I would guess -- we've got the Kentucky Derby going on in there.  That's what his heartbeat sounded like, and what Dr. Hall even said, too.  And you could hear the heartbeat increase and decrease with movement, etc.  After they unhooked me, the nurse told me that the other monitor they strapped on my belly was to monitor any contractions I might have and to see how the baby's heartbeat did through that.  I did have at least one contraction while I was sitting there (just a Braxton Hicks which I've been feeling for quite a few weeks now), possibly 2, so I'm glad that happened so they can read how Deacon did through it.  I assume Dr. Hall read the strip before she came in to see me so he must've done okay.  :)

She said that everything still looked great with the development and his heartbeat, etc.  She mentioned that she saw the baby was breech from my u/s this morning and told me that they do not deliver babies breech -- which I knew already -- but that that didn't necessarily mean a c-section.  She said they had methods to try to turn him, if he didn't automatically turn on his own between now and then.  I mean, we do still have 6 weeks left.  Let's not rush things, for cryin' out loud!

After today's appts, I'm starting weekly appts with my OB and every 2 weeks (if necessary) with Wilmington Maternal.  My OB will do an NST each time to just be sure the baby is still handling everything well.  I hope Jeff will be able to get to one of those with me -- it was pretty neat to hear the baby and his heartbeat for that long and I think Jeff would enjoy that.  :)